Watched 17 again at home yesterday. It was pretty funny and a lil touching as well. ahhhh~ how lovely it is when the lovers reunite in the end. Movies always paint a very beautiful picture about love. In movies, love can overcome all barriers and can happen in the most wondrous and perfect setting. All you need is love. How great it would be..to be in love - in a movie.
I used to watch alot of such movies...now i think its propaganda. What happens in the movies rarely happens in real life. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that. Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? This is a familiar scene for me for hmmm 1+5+1.5+0.5+0.5 = 8.5 years already lols. These years that I have been in love have been the darkest days of my life. All because I've been cursed by being in love with women who does not and will not love me back. I often wondered what the hell is wrong with me. Then it dawned upon me, my perspective have changed.
In the real world, love occurs only at the right timing - the feeling of loneliness at that point of time, blinding, what you really want. Thus, love is over-rated and undependable. Feelings can change easily with time. Change is the only constant thing in this world. Nobody will need anybody to survive unlike those scenarios depicted in the movies. Humans are selfish ultimately. I have friends..who can fall for this girl..only to change his mind in a flash after he got rejected and go for another girl. True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, but few have seen it. So please..love yourself, earn more money and enjoy life to the fullest. You're supposed to be the leading character in your own life, for God's sake! Learn to give but not take, cuz how will you ever appreciate it when you have never given? Why is it called 舍得? cuz you must learn to 施舍才会得到. Food for thought :)
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